sweetness

We're home! Our trip was awesome and amazing, just like Ethiopia and all the people we met on our trip. I don't have any words of wisdom that others haven't already shared on what to pack or how much money to bring, just be ready to open your heart and your mind and let the goodness of Ethiopia flow into you. I am sure my body will be processing the trip for the rest of my life. It was powerful in so many ways, especially emotionally. It was viceral. I wouldn't change a thing about our trip and look forward to the next one. I'm only sad that Tirfe won't remember her first 8 months in Ethiopia more vividly, but I know for certain it is part of her and she will carry it in her soul always, it is in the fiber of her being. Thank goodness. Ethiopia and Tirfe are quite beautiful and dynamic. I will always ponder with amazement and sadness the way this little lady became my daughter. I will ponder her beauty and amazing spirit as well.

Our time at home has been equally as amazing. The boys are doing great with Tirfe, loving her and playing with her all day long. Arlo can't get enough of her and asks to hold her all the time, then when I come to take her he says, "just a little longer..." too cute! The adjustment so far has been a breeze for us all, it seems we were ready for number five in this family, she fits and we are better than ever. The boys are getting along great with the extra sibling, they aren't going head to head as often fighting for attention. I guess there is just more love now, more goodness, more giggles and tickles, more joy. I know I feel it. I think they do too!

Today Tirfe played pirates with the boys (and had her very own pirate sword curtosy of Arlo), she also enjoyed a brief stints as a very immobile super spy, she played tools with the boys (hammering happily), and she was offered a ride on a gator once or twice (which I politely declined on her behalf, at least for now...). It is really fun at our house. I love it. Tirfe and I watched the boys make mud pools in the backyard yesterday with the hose and some shovels (big yard+ shovel=endless fun for kids!) I can tell she will be right there with them as soon as possible. These big brothers make the transition so much easier for Tirfe, they are so genuine, loving, and entertaining. They fill the house with their energy. I think I can speak for both of us when I say we are going to have sooo much fun together.

Ok, think I am done oooozing joy. But it is really pretty fun and lovely right now. teehee. (Check back with me when three kids have the flu at the same time this winter....)

xo